If your life is anything like mine, I am willing to bet that grocery shopping is not something you LOVE to do. Even though grocery shopping is essential for good health (and probably even for good wealth), it is a chore. It is time consuming, stressful, confusing, tiring and generally annoying. It can be even worse if you are shopping for any type of therapeutic diet or if anyone in your house has food allergies or sensitivities. Oh, and do you have to take your kids with you? Don't even get me started on this topic.
1. Know What You CAN Eat.
In my practice, I have noticed a trend among my patients. I ask them what they normally eat. They tell me what they don't eat. Often, they describe a very frustrating situation. They are avoiding certain foods or ingredients (gluten free, dairy free, vegan, low fat, etc). But they don't really know what they can eat. So they don't go grocery shopping, don't cook meals, and end up at Popeyes or Chic-Fil-A. Or, they eat an unbalanced meal meal (like "just vegetables") or a bland meal that they don't enjoy at all. Later in the evening they're searching for chips, ice cream, and cookies.
So, the solution to this is to focus on what you NEED to eat and what you CAN eat and what you WANT to eat.
We all know that every body is different, and each person has their own dietary needs and preferences. So, it is hard to say what "everybody" NEEDS to be eating. However, there are some really simple meal & snack patterns that help with meal planning.
Breakfast: Protein + Starch + Fruit
Lunch & Dinner: Protein + Starch + Vegetable
Snack: Fruit + Dairy or Fruit + Nuts
There are lots of variations on this.
Here are some more options:
Diabetes Plate Method
My Plate Method
Using a Diet Plate
ACTION STEP: Make a list of groceries that you like, that fit your diet (vegan, free-from, gluten free, dairy free, paleo, etc). Your list should include foods from each food group in your pattern. Be sure to include cooking oil and seasonings. Preprinted grocery lists & notebooks can help with this part.
2. Decide on your "go-to" grocery store.
I learned a motto a while back, "Don't let good get in the way of perfect." At first I didn't really get it. But after thinking about it, this is really important in a lot of areas in life, including grocery shopping. Sometimes we want to go to several grocery stores to take advantage of sales, buy specific products, or take advantage of gas points or other promotions. There's nothing wrong with this if it suits you. This practice can be cost effective and fun if you have time and energy (and patience!!) for it. But if time is of the essence, its ok to choose one "go-to" grocery store.
Here are some things to look out for when deciding on your "go-to grocery store:
Fair prices - You might not be able to get all the sales and deals or rock bottom prices, but knowing that prices are generally fair, you can make good decisions and buy what you need without spending a lot of time, stress, and energy on grocery shopping.
Convenient location - If the grocery store is too far away or out of your normal driving route, you will probably skip going. But if it is on your way home from work, close to home, or close to other places you have to go, you'll be able to go more easily.
Grocery delivery service - Grocery shopping online can save so much time and can help you save money (no impulse shopping!). Even if you prefer going to a physical location, it is good to have an online option. In my opinion, it is fantastic to have the save "go-to" physical location AND online / grocery delivery service. But it doesn't have to be. You might find that a grocery store that is close to home is meets some of your needs but doesn't offer specialty products. Using an online grocery service like Amazon, Thrive or Walmart might be a way to save time and get the specific groceries you need.
ACTION STEP: Decide on your go-to grocery store and go-to grocery delivery service. Make a note of it.
3. Establish a "Standard Operating Procedure" for grocery shopping.
A Standard Operating Procedure (SOP) is is a set of step-by-step instructions compiled by an organization to help workers carry out complex routine operations (Wikepedia). This might seem a little much just for grocery shopping but hear me out. Planning meals, buying groceries, shopping, cooking, packing left overs and meeting your family's diet & nutrition needs is complex. There are a lot of decisions to make: who needs what groceries, what is the budget, when should I go to the store, etc. And, grocery shopping is routine. We have to go shopping on a regular basis - daily / weekly / bi-weekly/ monthly etc.
Why would somebody implement a SOP? From Wikepedia, "SOPs aim to achieve efficiency, quality output and uniformity of performance, while reducing miscommunication and failure to comply with industry regulations." In other words, an SOP helps you do something better, easier, and cheaper.
So for grocery shopping, this will be different for each family. Factors to consider are: What groceries are needed in the house? How much food do we need to keep on hand? How often do we need to buy fresh foods? What day is best for shopping? Which day is best for cooking?
Here are some examples of SOP's I help my patients decide on.
1. I will go to my "go-to" grocery store: once a week / once every two weeks / every Saturday / on the days I work from home / every week when my kids are with another family member / when I get out of work early / on the way home from soccer practice. To figure this out, think about what you can do consistently.
2. I will order groceries online whenever: I need specialty products / I work overtime and don't have time to go to the store / my kids have extra activities and I don't have time to go out / somebody in the house isn't feeling well and we can't go to the grocery store as planned.
Now, save this somewhere that is helpful to you: maybe in the notes section of your phone, on a Trello board, as a calendar reminder, or a note in your planner. Be sure to include your go-to grocery store and grocery delivery service.
Grocery shopping can be complicated but it is truly necessary. Knowing what to shop for and how to do it can help you save time and stress. What tips do you have? Share in the comments below.
Written by Lisa Hugh - Registered Dietitian & Food Sensitivity Expert.
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